The Big Question

The Big Question, why would you adopt a child

over there instead of over here? It's funny that people would ask that question, in some cases with a level of indignation, believe it or not. Even in a sense that it seemed the tone was in some way questioning my patriotism, kind of the same way people view buying an American car as oppose to an import. Somewhat humorous, but then again not so much. Most Americans have no concept of poverty, real no kidding poverty. The kind of poverty that wreaks with the stench of a death sentence. That's why we adopted from Ethiopia, because poverty in Ethiopia can be just that, a death sentence.

Here in the states we confuse poverty with neglect. I have no doubt, in fact it's well documented that there is an issue with hunger here in the states. I won't refute that, but once again there is the infrastructure and the social programs to provide for those that are less fortunate. If one refuses to get aid and it affects their children, that is neglect, not poverty. I can almost guarantee you that the majority of homes that fit this description probably have a TV in them (with cable I might add) an automobile in the driveway, a cell phone, and probably a pack of cigarettes on the coffee table. Once again there may be an exception to the rule but not many. In Ethiopia and other countries nothing, no safety net for the unfortunate.

Poverty, that is why we adopted from Ethiopia, well second of course to God laying it on our heart that we needed to adopt from there. What a blessing it's been.

Anyway, having a daughter is so special. I can't explain it, boys their rough and tumble, and no doubt Eliana Nigist will be as well, but she's a my Ethiopian queen, the mother of my grandchildren (Lord willing). She's gonna be that gentle hand that some day comforts a Godly husband, that soft voice of encouragement, a precious angel. I just can't explain it, it's just right.

Well I'll be writing some more this weekend, about my beautiful angel so stay tuned.

God Bless,

Joe